Hello, guys. I trust you have been keeping well, as it has been a while I put up something right here. I didn’t forget you though. I was in some kind of vacay and I had opted to sleep most of the time. But I’m here, I am back and we can continue from where we left.
Have you ever found yourself simply walking towards that which you wanted to avoid? Either it was hurting you too much or it constantly caused you misfortunes. How have you dealt with such a situation? You have perhaps tried all exits that provided an opposite direction walk but still, you always walked towards that which you have wanted to avoid.
I know this kind of feeling because most of what we want to flee from are what we have held on to for a very long time. Fear. Fear speaks out so loud for itself, you wonder just how big its mouth can be. We entangle ourselves so much to it and we are afraid that letting go may cause us more pain and put us at a place we may not be able to get ourselves out of.
What then can you do, so that what you fear becomes what you get to embrace?
- Wish good for whatever you’re fleeing from.
It could be a person or a certain situation that you are trying to flee yourself from. Before anything else, wish that something good could come out of the person or the situation so that a remarkable change can begin to be felt and experienced.
- Know exactly what you want.
Often we are in these situations or with people because we do not really know what we want. However, if we got to understand where exactly we are coming from and where exactly we need to be, we begin to slowly detach and the detangling process begins to get easier.
- Know your worth
There are certain things that we get to do that demean our worth and our value. We begin to feel of little value and we start being so unappreciative of who we truly are. We forget that we are powerful and unique, and we are God’s children and He loves us. Once we can understand that we are worthy even when circumstances make us feel otherwise, we can get free from the situations that make us feel as we do.
- Thank God for the situation
I have learned that the most important thing we can do for ourselves is to thank God for whatever situation He allows in our lives. Good or bad, we do not come out the same. Whether a situation has made you feel like you needed to be there even when you were not supposed to, God keeps you at it so that in freeing you or helping you flee, you may learn what it is like to be somewhere you are not supposed to be at.
If we know how exactly we can do everything out of a sincere and genuine love, we will often wish that there was something positive, even just a little from whatever it is we are trying to run from. No one is bad, we only sometimes make choices that are not right. If we love the people whom we think are bad, they will begin to love themselves and start doing acts of kindness.
Sometimes, it takes just one ordeal to realize that there is more to life. God has intended for it to be beautiful, and the “bad situations” are just but milestones to get us to the land of positivity surrounded by all beautiful things and people, and that is us.
Once again, I had missed writing to you people. I will try to be as consistent as I should. I thank you very much for reading, and this is from my heart to yours! 🙂